You need to learn how to select your thoughts just the same way you select your clothes every day. This is a power you can cultivate. If you want to control things in your life so bad, work on the mind. That’s the only thing you should be trying to control.

Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love  (via larmoyante)

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I don’t want to get rid of the unpleasant things,
I want to learn how to deal with them.
I don’t want to numb the pain because I would only be blocking out the happiness to come as well,
And replacing it by feeling nothing.
I want to feel every mountain and valley because the landforms are always beautiful
No matter how low or high you are on life.
I claim the tears and the sorrow because they are necessary to ever appreciate anything good that comes my way.
I choose to feel the acid rain that pours upon my soul and all the broken hearts, Because I know someday the sun will reach through the darkened clouds and cradle my battered body in its arms, and let me know everything will be okay again.
And I’ll bandage my own broken hearts,
After learning that I don’t need anyone but myself to do it for me.
Some may call me crazy for embracing the terrible things, but I do.
I want poetry,
And sin and forgiveness,
And tumults and beacons of hope.
I claim them all.

Jaelyn.Aragon, The Right to Emotions (via aestheticintrovert)

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Ramblings of a Crazy Person

Humans are such precious things and it scares me to think that the truth of that preciousness has been lost in today’s consumerist/materialistic society.

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One of the reasons school is such a wonderful thing, is because you get to meet a plethora of amazing, unique, and beautiful people.

Every person I have met carries with them a story, a past, a tragedy; something that forms their passion, their dreams and drives their motivation.

But one of the most important lessons I’m learning this year, is that sometimes I expect things to last longer than they probably do and should. Everything is fleeting and transient and it’s so important to remember that. That’s how you live in the moment. These people you have around you right now, they’re only around you for a couple months, maybe years. Then time will pull you apart - job opportunities, life partners, your dreams, unforeseen circumstances and what have you.

Enjoy the now. Be in the now. Focus on the now.

No one knows what tomorrow will bring, but if you focus on what’s right in front of you - I’m sure the future will work itself out.

I used to say going to school, particularly graduate school, with a wife and child was impossible. I want him to prove me wrong in every single way.

He needs this degree more than anyone else. He needs to build a career, because his ten month old bundle of joy needs him. His wife who makes quiet sacrifices so that he can go to school, needs him. All my love goes to him and his child and his wife.

May God give him the strength to cruise through the next four years. May everything be easy for him, may he find blessings and opportunity in every corner and may God reward his hard work with only growth and success.

Time pulls some people together and others apart. I think that’s something we all have to come to terms with.

Being friends means spending this moment, this present together. Don’t worry about the future - that all remains to be seen. If your friendship endures, great; If not, smile, be happy for the time you spent together and move on.










Breaking news: The D.C. Appeals Court just killed Net Neutrality.

This could be the end of the Internet as we know it. But it doesn’t have to be. 

Tell the FCC to restore Net Neutrality:

they want to make the internet like tv. with channels and paying to get to specific websites and things. net neutrality = not doing that

This impacts every internet user. Please signal boost the hell out of this and sign the petition if you are American

I do not reblog things like this very often, but this affects me both personally and my business as a freelance artist.

In the economy here; cash is already strapped as it is. You bet your ass companies would suck the ever living life out of misc. art sites.

I don’t want it to ever come down to me choosing between groceries or purchasing a new tier package via comcast to be able to access tumblr or DeviantArt (let alone not guaranteeing I’ll even be seen by my customer base since they may not want to pay out their asses either). It doesn’t seem important to most, but I do 90% of my business online entirely.

Please sign up, fight for this and share it with your followers/friends/family and urge them to give them hell as well.

Not writing related, but this is incredibly important. While we pay for service via ISPs, the internet has been a relatively free space where everyone, no matter their income level, is able to connect, access a wealth of information, and express themselves. The Internet has become a major part of our culture as human beings and the notion that ISPs might be able to limit what sites I can access unless I pay them more is utterly sickening. A lot of us are cash strapped as is, and I’d rather not be limited even more by someone else’s greed. Net Neutrality is essential and I hope you guys will understand why it needs to remain.


P.S. Signal boost this if you’re able.

“ limit what sites I can access unless I pay them more”

 limit what sites I can access unless I pay them more

 limit what sites I can access unless I pay them more

 limit what sites I can access unless I pay them more

 limit what sites I can access unless I pay them more


As I understand this ruling, it means that businesses now have to pay extra to ISPs to have access to their websites through that ISP provided at a reasonable speed. If you don’t pay, users’ access to your website will be slowed to a crawl - so independent people and small businesses can forget about getting onto that high speed access tier. 

This means that the American internet is going to be firmly under the control of those who have the most money. You’ll only get to see the content of those who can pay the ISPs to provide access at a reasonable speed. This means that you can expect to see skewed representation of just about everything, with those bigger businesses who can afford to pay ISPs a premium for access deciding what you can and cannot read, view and consume on the internet.

This is not something that we have in the UK. Our ISPs compete with each other to provide higher speeds, better services and lower prices, but because there’s a monopoly in the US of a few ISPs who provide services, they can afford to do this to you. You can’t go anywhere else, after all.

Everyone in the US needs to sign that petition, call their representatives, write angry letters and do whatever you can to tell your government that this ruling is Not Okay.

Maybe you guys are sick of this post but It’s really important to freelance artists and pretty much everyone who uses the internet, so here it is again.  \o0o/

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Humdard - Ek Villan
Pal do pal ki hi kyun hai zindagi
Why is this life filled with these fleeting moments,
Is pyaar ko hai sadiyaan kaafi nahi
For this love, even centuries are not enough.
to khuda se maang loon
Shall I ask God then,
Mohalat main ik nayi
For more time to start anew?
Rehna hai bas yahaan
I’ll live right here,
Ab door tujhse jaana nahi
Straying not far from you,
Jo tu mera humdard hai
You, who have become one who shares my pain.

Personally, I think “Humdard" is one of Urdu’s most eloquent words. "Hum" means "our", and "dard" means "pain". Humdard literally means our pain, and when calling someone Humdard it means one who shares my pain.